The foundation of a successful surrogacy journey lies in the connection between the surrogate and the intended parents. Matching the right surrogate with the right family isn’t just about checking off boxes—it’s about creating a partnership built on trust, understanding, and shared values.
Understanding the Unique Needs of Each Party
The matching process at Adonis Fertility International begins with a deep dive into understanding both the surrogate and the intended parents. We take the time to get to know each surrogate candidate personally. This involves discussing their motivations, family background, lifestyle, and expectations for the surrogacy journey. For intended parents, we explore their hopes, dreams, and what they seek in a surrogate.
This personalized approach ensures we match based on medical and logistical criteria and align based on emotional and psychological compatibility. The relationship between surrogates and intended parents is as crucial as the medical process itself.
The Matching Process
- Initial Consultations: Every surrogate and the intended parent begin their journey with a thorough consultation. This isn’t just a routine interview; it’s a conversation exploring values, expectations, and personal stories. We want to understand what drives each surrogate and what each intended parent hopes to find in a surrogate partner.
- Comprehensive Screening: We conduct extensive medical, psychological, and background screenings for all surrogates to ensure they are physically and emotionally ready for the journey. But beyond that, we also focus on understanding their personal goals and family dynamics. For intended parents, we guide what to expect and help them articulate what they seek in a surrogate, ensuring clarity and preparedness from both sides.
- Profile Matching: We start the profile matching process based on the insights gathered from the consultations and screenings. This involves matching medical criteria and looking at personality traits, communication styles, and shared values. We consider factors such as geographic location, openness to communication during the pregnancy, and the level of involvement each party desires.
- Personal Meetings: Once a potential match is identified, we arrange individual meetings, either in person or virtually, depending on location. This is a crucial step, as it allows both parties to connect, ask questions, and ensure they feel comfortable moving forward together. When surrogates and intended parents can build a rapport early on, it lays the groundwork for a smoother, more collaborative journey.
- Legal and Ethical Alignment: Before finalizing any match, we ensure that both parties are aligned on legal and ethical matters. This includes discussing the legal aspects of surrogacy, setting clear expectations for communication, and agreeing on how the relationship will evolve during and after the pregnancy. Our legal team works closely with both surrogates and intended parents to draft agreements that reflect the unique circumstances of their match.
- Ongoing Support: Our role doesn’t end there once the match is confirmed. We provide continuous support throughout the pregnancy, ensuring the surrogate and the intended parents feel supported, informed, and connected. We offer counseling services, regular check-ins, and mediation, if needed, to help navigate any challenges that may arise.
Why Our Approach Works
What sets Adonis Fertility International apart is our commitment to building solid and positive relationships between surrogates and intended parents. We recognize that surrogacy is not just a medical procedure but a profoundly personal and emotional experience. By focusing on the human elements of the process—understanding, communication, and mutual respect—we create matches that lead to fulfilling and successful surrogacy journeys.
Our approach is more than just creating families; it’s about making lifetime connections. At Adonis Fertility International, we’re not just matching surrogates with intended parents but fostering partnerships that bring new life into the world with love, care, and compassion.
If you’re considering becoming a surrogate or are looking for a surrogate to help build your family, we invite you to reach out to us.
Become a surrogate and change somebody’s life forever by granting them their dream of having a baby!